I find pleasure in simple things and simple life. Having a simple life has many advantages. Simplicity ensures that I can thoroughly enjoy my life.

I acquire and keep only the things that mean the most to me. Having too many possessions and commitments requires too much of my time, money, and energy. Yet, the value that they add to my life is little.

I focus on the most important people, things, and activities in my life. This lifestyle is most enjoyable to me.

It is easier to have a complete life when life is simple. Complex life has missing elements. The complexity always ensures that something is missing.

A simple life has the necessary room to make additions. Valuing a simple life means it is also easy to subtract things. Subtraction is more than easy because it is enjoyable. I am excited when I find a way to make my life even more simple.

A simple life has financial advantages, too. I only spend my money on those things that are necessities or add the most mea...

Focus: The importance of mindset transformation through the renewing of the mind to combat negativity.

Renewing Your Mind for a Positive Outlook

"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." (Romans 12:2)

In today's fast-paced society, personal development is often associated with career advancement, goal-setting, and self-improvement. However, true growth stems from a deeper place—a growth mindset rooted in Christ. When we allow God to direct our personal development, we experience transformation that goes beyond worldly achievements. With God’s truth as our foundation, we are empowered to face challenges, embrace change, and trust that every obstacle serves a higher purpose in our journey.

Zig Ziglar said, "Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will."

A Biblical Foundation for Growth

True personal devel...

I celebrate life through dancing. As I dance, I release stress and let go of worries. I can move around, jump, shout and enjoy myself. I feel set free when I step on the dance floor.

I enjoy the effects of lifting my hands, moving to the beat, and throwing my head back. I release myself from fear of what people might say and let myself have a good time.

Dancing is enjoyable because it is an avenue for me to express a different side to my personality. If I hit the dance floor, I am looking to have a good time with my best girlfriends.

As I put my hands in the air, I allow worries to roll off my body. With every step I take, I overcome fears and negativity. Dancing offers me confidence and energy like nothing else.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-4 KJV

1 To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

2  A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to bre...

My efforts determine my happiness. Happiness is an achievement that is within my control. However, sometimes I need to work for it.

It takes discipline to be content. I trade fleeting pleasure for long-term satisfaction. Saving money for retirement gives me more peace of mind than splurging on fancy clothing and electronics. Going to the gym after work keeps me healthier than sitting around watching TV.

Perseverance is important. I plan for obstacles and find alternative ways to reach my goals.

I direct my efforts towards cultivating gratitude and finding happiness. I appreciate the love of my family and friends. I give thanks for my health. I practice forgiveness and let go of grudges that weigh me down. I engage in positive thinking and transform hardships into challenges.

I manage stress. Taking a walk clears my mind. Deep breathing dispels tension. Rest and meditating on God’s word restore me.

My dedication to my relationships contributes to my happiness. Enhanc...

Life can be both simple and fulfilling. The desire to make life more complex than needed is a source of discontent. The greatest things in life are simple and meaningful at the same time. Joy and pleasure are present in my life today.

Contentment with simple things is a sign that my ego is under control. I limit my desires to things that matter to me most.

Making simple things more complicated is a habit I avoid. I use my creativity to make the complex easier. When I do, I free my mind from concern, stress, and worry. Joy and pleasure are the results. I see the link between joy and simplicity all around.

I appreciate being alive. I enjoy being free.

Children have a wonderful and simple view of the world. I strive to adopt that same simple perspective.

An act as simple as smiling can transform someone's day. I look for simple actions that make a difference in my and others' lives. There is power in the simplest moments.

I seek simplicity. I recognize that the sim...

I can hardly believe we are already a month into 2021. Did you struggle in 2020? Has the first part of this year been a struggle? I want to openly admit that I did not have an easy year myself. I had such plans for 2020. But, it was such a struggle to 'get by' at times – seemingly for the whole world. Our struggles are not always a bad thing. It just means we have the opportunity for growth.

I reenforced one of my big life lessons this past year: you MUST keep showing up even when you do not want to, or when you are struggling. Keep writing down your goals, planning out your financials, meal prepping, taking care of yourself, and believing! Write out your daily to-do lists that align with your goals and create action behind them. 

Was health or wellness on your list of 2021 resolutions? Well, here we are a month into the year, and I know that the initial excitement of resolutions fades. Being successful and making a change does require the proper organization of thoughts and fa...

Even the little things matter. Everything I do makes a difference.

My actions set an example for others. My children are less likely to swear if I am careful about what I say in stressful situations. When I allow someone to go ahead of me in the grocery line, they may pass on a similar favor to someone else.

Each time I take a step forward, it brings me closer to my goals.

My choices are important. Choosing grits for breakfast instead of a donut puts me on track for eating healthy all day. Saving money each week provides me with the funds for unexpected home or car repairs.

We all face setbacks in life. My presence and support can cheer someone up when they need it most. I can reduce their burden by listening to their concerns or helping them find a solution.

Major achievements require teamwork. Even when I play a minor role, my efforts are significant. When I proofread a report or help out with simple tasks, I add to a useful presentation. It is easier to pick up l...

Have you heard the phrase: “Going with the flow.” It signifies allowing yourself to drift from one situation to another without rhythm or purpose.

That is the absolute opposite of being goal-oriented.

But, a little fluidity can make things work effectively. As you set goals, you want to be flexible and accommodate life changes while having your eyes on your prize.

Every woman has her meaning of success in the same way that everyone has unique dreams for their life. It is not sufficient to identify what prize you are targeting. Ingenuity is key to productive goal setting. Allow yourself to dream, explore, and visualize options.

Whether personal, career, or business, success depends on achieving meaningful goals. There can be countless different ways to cross a river, but you will find only a few, maybe even just one, suited to you. “Going with the flow” involves letting yourself go through flexible thinking and always looking around for the one method that suits you and works...

Focus: How to maintain and strengthen faith amidst social, political, and personal uncertainties in 2021.

Cultivating a Resilient Faith in Challenging Times

In a world filled with distractions, developing self-discipline is one of the most powerful tools that Christian women can use to take control of their personal development and faith. The Word of God teaches us the importance of discipline in both spiritual and personal aspects of life. It requires a deep commitment to growth, trust in God’s guidance, and the ability to focus on what truly matters. Let us explore how self-discipline, grounded in biblical principles, is the foundation for success and fulfillment in all areas of life.

"He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls." – Proverbs 25:28 (KJV)

Truth Mindset: Aligning Your Thoughts with God's Truth

At the core of self-discipline is the ability to control not only our actions but also our thoughts. The Truth Mi...

I let go of the tendency to control other people's thoughts, opinions, or actions. I focus on self-improvement. There is only one person I have control over - me!

I like it if people think well of me. But I release worry about what they might think. It is a waste of my time and energy and causes me unnecessary anxiety. I do my best, and I know that is all I can do. I understand this. Moreover, I am fine with it.

I abide by the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you would have them do unto you). I stay true to myself. I am sure most people think well of me. I refuse to let it distract me if they do not.

I like understanding I am in control of my actions, behaviors, and thoughts. It takes the burden off my shoulders to know that the only person I need to control is me. What an uplifting revelation!

I have gratitude bringing me joy.

I have a zeal for life that enables me to enjoy every minute of every day by simply living in those moments.

I have affirmations to change...