Personal Development for Christian Women: Focusing on the Personal Spoke of the Wheel of Life

As Christian women, we often wear many hats—wife, mother, employee, volunteer, friend—and it can be easy to lose sight of one very important person: ourselves. We can become so focused on caring for others that we forget our needs, desires, and spiritual growth. However, personal development is key to living a fulfilling and God-centered life.

The "personal" spoke of the Wheel of Life represents the area in our lives where we focus on self-care, growth, and personal fulfillment. It is not about selfishness; it is about investing in ourselves to serve others better, live with greater purpose, and honor God in all aspects of life.

Nurturing our personal lives builds a foundation for everything else to thrive.

1. Embrace Your Identity in Christ

A vital part of personal development as a Christian woman begins with understanding who you are in Christ. Ephesians 2:10 (KJV) reminds us, "For w...

Raising Awareness for Transverse Myelitis on June 9, 2025

Every year on June 9, the world observes Transverse Myelitis (TM) Awareness Day — a time to shine a light on a rare neurological condition that affects thousands of individuals and their families. As a Christian woman and life coach, I believe that awareness not only informs, but also inspires compassion, advocacy, and action. Whether you or someone you love has been touched by TM, today is a day to pause, pray, and raise awareness.

What is Transverse Myelitis?

Transverse Myelitis is a rare inflammation of the spinal cord that disrupts the way the brain and body communicate. It can result in pain, muscle weakness, sensory issues, and even paralysis. Some recover fully, while others face lifelong disability. It affects people of all ages and backgrounds, often without warning.

Common symptoms include:

• Sudden onset of back pain

• Weakness in the arms or legs

• Abnormal sensations (tingling, numbness)

• Bladder or...

Christian spirituality is not a stagnant experience — it is a daily, lifelong journey of growing in grace and becoming more like Christ. As women of faith, we are called to move from spiritual infancy to spiritual maturity, allowing the Holy Spirit to shape our character, deepen our understanding, and guide our steps.

From Milk to Meat: Embracing Growth

The Apostle Paul challenged early believers not to remain babes in Christ. In 1 Corinthians 3:2 (KJV), he writes, "I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it." The same challenge is before us today. God desires that we grow from merely receiving His Word to rightly handling it, applying it, and living it out.

Spiritual maturity is about:

• Developing discernment

• Practicing humility

• Cultivating wisdom

• Walking in the Spirit, not in the flesh

• Living with eternal perspective

The Markers of Maturing Faith

As we mature, our faith becomes more resilient, our reaction...

Words matter. As Christian women pursuing lives of purpose, peace, and impact, we must learn to speak what God says about us — not what the world, our past, or our feelings say. This is the essence of Truth Declarations — speaking God’s Word over our lives to transform our thinking, renew our hearts, and align our lives with His will.

Proverbs 18:21 (KJV) reminds us, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." When we declare the truth of Scripture, we are planting seeds of life, faith, and power into our minds, our homes, and our future.

What Are Truth Declarations?

Truth Declarations are Scripture-based statements that reflect God's promises, identity, and instructions. Unlike secular affirmations that often focus on self alone, Truth Declarations are rooted in the unchanging truth of God’s Word.

They are:

• Biblical: Aligned with Scripture, not wishful thinking.

• Faith-Focused: Spoken in trust, even when you do no...

Building Better Relationships Through DISC Personality Styles

Healthy communication is the heart of every thriving relationship. Whether you are interacting with your spouse, children, coworkers, church family, or friends, how you speak — and how you are heard — can make or break the connection.

As Christian women seeking to walk in truth and love, learning to communicate according to personality style is a powerful way to build stronger, God-honoring relationships.

That is where the DISC personality model becomes a helpful tool.

🧠 What Is DISC?

The DISC model identifies four primary personality styles:

• D – Dominant: Direct, decisive, and driven

• I – Influential: Inspiring, outgoing, and enthusiastic

• S – Steady: Supportive, calm, and loyal

• C – Conscientious: Careful, analytical, and quality-focused

We are each uniquely wired by God, and understanding DISC helps us speak to others in a way that honors their design.

"A word fitly spoken is like apple...

The Truth About Growth, Clarity, and God-Given Purpose

In today’s fast-paced world, Christian women wear many hats — wife, mother, daughter, professional, leader, caregiver, and friend. With responsibilities stacked high and expectations pulling in every direction, it is easy to feel emotionally exhausted, spiritually burned out, or stuck in a cycle of imposter syndrome.

That is where life coaching comes in.

You may think, “I do not need life coaching — I just need help with business... or relationships... or parenting.” But the truth is: all coaching is life coaching — because life touches everything you do.

💡 What Is Life Coaching?

Life coaching is not therapy or counseling. It is a forward-focused, solution-oriented relationship designed to:

• Clarify your vision

• Identify roadblocks

• Strengthen mindset and faith

• Achieve goals

• Create strategies that align with God’s plan for your life

“Coaching is the fastest way to grow yourself so you can grow o...

A Blog for Christian Women Entrepreneurs, Coaches, Speakers, and Authors

God is raising up a new wave of Christian women who are stepping boldly into business, ministry, and leadership with Kingdom purpose. Whether you are an entrepreneur, a life coach, a speaker, or an author — your calling is not just about profits or platforms. It is about purpose, obedience, and legacy.

You are not just building a business — you are building the Kingdom.

🌿 Business as a Calling, Not Just a Career

As Christian women in business, we do not separate our faith from our work. We are called to reflect Christ in every conversation, contract, and collaboration.

KJV Scripture:
"Whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God." — 1 Corinthians 10:31

Whether you are launching your first book, hosting a coaching workshop, or managing a growing team — you are serving the Lord through your gifts.

💼 The Power of Purpose-Driven Work

You are not in business by accident. God has equipped you with:

• A m...

A Christian Woman’s Guide to Purpose and Alignment

Becoming the best version of yourself is not about striving for perfection, comparing yourself to others, or achieving worldly success. For the Christian woman, it means something far deeper: living in alignment with God’s truth, walking in your God-given purpose, and becoming more like Christ every day.

This is not self-help — this is Spirit-led growth.

🌿 Step One: Know Who You Are in Christ

True personal development begins with identity. You are not defined by your past, your performance, or your position. You are defined by who God says you are.

Scripture:
“But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light.” — 1 Peter 2:9

When you know who you are in Christ, your confidence no longer comes from striving — it flows from standing firm in truth.

✨ Step Two: Understand Your Purpos...

💜 When the Pain Pounds Loud 💜

Some days the world feels too loud.
The lights too bright.
The pressure too heavy.
And for many women, migraines and headaches are more than occasional inconveniences—they are life-altering battles.

June is Migraine & Headache Awareness Month, a time to bring hope, education, and support to the millions who silently suffer. If you are one of them, dear sister, please know this: you are not alone, and you are not forgotten.

📖 “He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.” — Isaiah 40:29

💠 Understanding the Storm

Migraines are not just “bad headaches.”
They can come with nausea, visual disturbances (auras), sensitivity to sound and light, and even speech difficulty. Tension headaches, cluster headaches, and sinus headaches also rob many women of focus, energy, and peace.

Science tells us that migraines can be triggered by:

• Hormonal changes (especially around menstruation or menopause)

• Stress and poor

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As Christian women, our spiritual journey is not static. It grows, shifts, and deepens with every season of life. From youthful beginnings to seasoned wisdom, each decade offers unique opportunities to develop our relationship with God, grow in grace, and stand strong in faith.

Let's walk together through the decades and see how to thrive spiritually in each one — not just surviving, but standing strong.

👧 20s: Foundation and Identity

This is the decade of discovery — career choices, relationships, independence. Spiritually, it is a season of laying foundations.

Focus:

• Solidify your identity in Christ

• Build spiritual habits (prayer, Bible study, fellowship)

• Seek God’s vision for your future

KJV Scripture:
"Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth..." — Ecclesiastes 12:1 (KJV)

Truth to Declare: I am chosen, loved, and called for God’s purpose.

👩 30s: Responsibility and Refinement

Responsibilities increase — family, career, ministry. Faith deep...