One definition of failure is a lack of success in accomplishing something or coming short of a performance standard we or others have set. Disappointment is the sense of unhappiness and frustration resulting from the failure. These feelings can stem from our failures, the failures of others, or both. What does the Bible teach us about failure and disappointment? How should women respond to disappointments?

Scripture's consistent message is that failure and disappointment are inescapable parts of the human experience. Biblical examples of failure expose the painful disappointment that follows in its course: disappointment with self, others, and even God. One of the challenges with the constant victory narratives we are fed today is the message that triumph is for everyone and that everyone will be a winner. The result is that no one is prepared when victory is slow to visit and when failure knocks at their door, sometimes repeatedly.

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We need to humble ourselves before god, and He will honor us. This humbleness does not mean that Christians should carry the burden of low self-esteem. Learning from successes can boost your self-esteem. You learn more about yourself and your strengths. Everyone excels in at least one area, and often in more than one. A Spiritual Gifts Assessment helps you understand your God-given talents. This can help you understand where your best skills lie. You should then do activities that empower you to take advantage of those proven abilities more often.

^“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.” – James 1:17 KJV

If you do something well, you feel a sense of accomplishment. Your confidence surges because you were able to achieve something that either helped you or helped others. In many cases, you were the best choice for the task...

Does it seem all you do is plan for future joyful times? Possibly you hear sayings like "live each day as if it were your last," but you have trouble taking it to heart.

Feeling joyful times can take some extra effort on your part at times. The truth is, it is your choice. We live in demanding and challenging times and must learn to schedule a moment to slow down, then enjoy living in the present.

Every woman has a unique definition of what joy means to them. Even on your busiest days, you should strive to pause and remember what is essential in your life, then live your life in harmony with your priorities.

The Joy Of Everyday Things

We can get joy right here in the lives we now lead. While going out and experiencing new and exciting things is fun, it is always good to start where we are. There are things to be thankful for and opportunities for joy in routine settings.

Think about these things in your pursuit of joy and fulfillment:

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Today's affirmation is a little bit different. I have a request from one of my wonderful Women of Worth. She is struggling with her divorce. I hope this will help her to think about grace and living her life to the fullest.

Divorce is an accepted fact of life in modern culture. But for many Christian women in broken marriages, it presents a moral dilemma. Does she stay in an unhealthy, perhaps even harmful marriage for the sake of her vow and covenant? Or does she act against her beliefs and seek a divorce?

Jesus illustrated the relationship between husband and wife this way in Matthew 19:6 KJV: Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

However, there are Biblical reasons for divorce.

Matthew 19:8,9

8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put...

 I am the only person who knows myself as well as I do (besides Jesus). Daily I amaze myself with how much of an impact I can have on my life and the lives of others when I put forth a maximum effort.

I know my limits. I also know when I have lost hope and have stopped believing in myself. I demand that I move past any negativity and make an effort to push forward with positivity.

I can push myself beyond any previous limits to make positive gains in my mind, body, and soul.

I deserve only 100% effort out of myself and those around me.

I respect myself enough to be a constant reminder of where I have been and where I want to go. I know what to expect. I am excited to learn how far I can go if I use my internal motivation.

I am successful when I try my best and believe in myself. I am strong because of my past, and my future is bright now that I am motivated to remain focused.

I am happier, healthier, and exude confidence when I make a...

 I eliminate distractions from my environment by creating a workspace favorable to productivity.

I keep electronic devices off and out of my reach when I need to focus on a task. If I need to work on an electronic device, I exit all games and applications that could potentially tempt me. By removing temptations from my sight, I increase my ability to focus.

At times, though, my surroundings are out of my control. At those times, I reach within my mind and find the strength to focus through willpower. I know the importance of my work. Therefore I value my time spent working.

My will to succeed is stronger than the lure of temptation. By thinking logically, I reveal to myself the truth behind temptation. There is no distraction worth deviating from my goals.

The temporary fulfillment of giving in to a distraction is counterfeit compared to the satisfaction of completing a task—my ability to focus lies on my determination, not on my environment.

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My personal best is good enough in all situations. Passion is what is necessary for me to be successful. I am pleased when I give my all because my best is all I have to offer.

I cease to compare myself to others because there will always be someone more talented than me in some area. Yet, the strength to succeed is within me. I am equipped with everything I need to accomplish my purpose in life.

I can cheer for those who are better than me at something with genuine authenticity. My self-esteem is impenetrable by feelings of inadequacy.

I say no to demanding more from myself than what I can give. Even though I push myself beyond my expectations, I also know my limitations. I respect myself enough to accept my flaws.

My loved ones are a foundation of support; they love me for who I am. I rid myself of the company of people who cannot be satisfied. A healthy mindset is worth more than the appreciation of toxic individuals.

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 Setting goals helps me stay on track. Every day, I recommit to working on my goals. I am self-motivated and do what is required to maintain my drive.

Accomplishing goals gives me pleasure. I feel the same amount of satisfaction when I complete any big or small goal. I consider all I am responsible for to be necessary.

Whenever I have a task in front of me, I consider it vital. I avoid minimizing the importance of any job, even if it seems trivial to me. I know these tasks are essential to someone.

If I face disappointment, I do not allow it to take hold of me. I permit myself a brief time to deal with the frustration; then, I move on.

My positive mindset lets me refuel and carry on with tremendous enthusiasm.

I am unrelenting and ready to start from the beginning as many times as needed. I welcome the opportunity to do something well the next time. There are few outcomes that I consider to be failures.

Whenever I need encouragement, I...

I write down my most important objectives and outline the steps to make them happen. This makes my goals attainable and easy to focus on today. I know that I can achieve them by just taking one small step at a time.

I visualize reaching all of my goals. I see how to make them a part of my life and what I need to do. I examine each step in my mind before it happens. I enjoy the feelings of pride and accomplishment and think thoughts of victory as I work toward my goals.

I have a clear plan of action to make my goals real.

I know who I need to speak to and who can help me. I know what skills and tools I need to use. I appreciate the amount of time and the effort it takes.

I measure the progress of my efforts. I keep a list of my accomplishments and share them with the world. I am proud of every moment and movement.

Even though I have many goals, I prioritize the goals that mean the most to me and the plans that will make the most significant...