How I-Style Christian Women Build Relationships That Shine for God’s Glory

Some women light up every room they enter. Their laughter fills the air, their words encourage, and their presence feels like sunlight after a storm. They are the women who naturally draw others in — full of warmth, hope, and joy.

If this sounds like you, you likely have an I Personality Style — the Inspiring or Influencer type in the DISC model. You are relational, enthusiastic, expressive, and full of vision. God designed you to bring light, encouragement, and joy into the lives of others.

📖 “A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance.” — Proverbs 15:13 KJV

You have a beautiful gift — the ability to uplift and inspire. Yet even gifts need grounding. While your energy and optimism bless others, maintaining balance and authenticity ensures that your influence builds connection instead of chaos.

🌿 Jesus as the Perfect Example of the I Style

Jesus modeled connection masterfully. He was approachable, rela...

There comes a moment in every woman’s life when the call of God whispers louder than her comfort zone.
It may not come through a trumpet blast or a burning bush—sometimes it is that still, small voice saying, “Go.”

But fear stands at the edge of that calling like a wall.
“What if I fail?”
“What if I am not ready?”
“What if I heard wrong?”

Fear whispers lies that keep you small. Faith calls you forward into purpose.
And every time a woman chooses obedience over fear, Heaven takes notice.

📖 “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” — 2 Timothy 1:7 KJV

Christian Life Coaching helps women identify the lies behind their fear, replace them with truth, and walk courageously in obedience. Courage is not the absence of fear—it is faith in motion.

The Biblical Case Study: Esther’s Brave Step of Obedience

Queen Esther’s story is one of divine courage.
She could have remained silent when her people faced destruction, but Mordecai’s ...

Be the Salt: 

📖 “Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted?” — Matthew 5:13 KJV

In a world that measures success by power, profit, and performance, God calls Christian women to lead by a higher standard — to be salt in the business world. Salt preserves, purifies, and enhances. In the same way, godly women leaders bring truth, excellence, and grace into every sphere of influence.

You were not placed in your business by accident.
You were positioned there on purpose — to make a difference that lasts far beyond the bottom line.

🌿 What It Means to Be “Salt” in Business

Salt has three primary qualities: it preserves, enhances, and purifies.
Each of these principles reflects the heart of Kingdom leadership.

1. Salt Preserves — Lead with Integrity

Integrity preserves trust — the foundation of all leadership.

📖 “Providing for honest things, not only in the sight of the Lord, but also in the sight of men.” — 2 Corinthians 8:21 K...

Awaken the Aha: 

📖 “The spirit of man is the candle of the Lord, searching all the inward parts of the belly.” — Proverbs 20:27 KJV

There are moments in life when truth breaks through like dawn — moments when a fog of confusion clears, and suddenly, you see what was hidden. We call them aha moments — flashes of divine clarity where wisdom meets awareness.

These moments are not accidents. They are God’s invitations to growth. They are the start of transformation.

Zig Ziglar once said,

“You cannot hit a target you cannot see, and you cannot see a target you do not have.”

Before we can change our lives, we must first see — truly see — what God is showing us. That insight, that aha, is where the journey begins.

🌿 The Power of Revelation

In Scripture, insight is often described as light — illumination that reveals what was once hidden. The Holy Spirit works within us, shining truth into dark or confusing places, awakening understanding.

📖 “The entrance of thy words giveth li...

📅 Observed: October 13

Every October, pink ribbons, pink lights, and pink apparel flood our communities as a powerful reminder to raise awareness for breast cancer. It is a month marked by compassion, remembrance, and advocacy — yet, it can also be deeply emotional for those currently walking through treatment or living with metastatic breast cancer.

For many women, seeing “everything pink” brings hope and solidarity. But for others, especially those still in the fight, it may serve as a painful reminder of loss, fear, or uncertainty. As we bring awareness, let us also bring mindfulness — approaching each woman’s story with respect, empathy, and grace.

📖 “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.” — Romans 12:15 KJV

Awareness should never just be about the color pink — it should be about care, compassion, and connection.

Breast cancer remains one of the most common cancers affecting women today. In fact, it is the second most common cancer in women aft...

Stewarding the Temple

In today’s busy world, many Christian women pour out for everyone else — family, work, ministry — until their own bodies whisper (or sometimes shout), “I need care too.”

We often think of spirituality in terms of prayer, worship, and Scripture, but God’s Word teaches that our bodies are part of our worship.
How we rest, move, eat, and breathe can glorify God when done with gratitude and balance.

📖 “What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you… and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.” — 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 KJV

Caring for your body is not selfish — it is spiritual stewardship. When you care for your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit, you are tending to the vessel God uses to fulfill His purposes through you.

🌿 Stewardship and Spirituality Go Hand in Hand

God entrusted you with a mind to think, a spirit to worship, and a body to...

Speaking God’s Word with Power

Words shape worlds.
From the very beginning, Scripture teaches that what we speak has creative power. God spoke the universe into existence — and we, created in His image, have been given the ability to shape our lives through the words we choose to believe and declare.

📖 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.” — Proverbs 18:21 KJV

If death and life are in the power of the tongue, then every word we speak carries weight. That means our declarations — words spoken in alignment with God’s truth — are not just positive statements. They are spiritual tools that reshape how we think, believe, and live.

🌿 What Are Truth Declarations?

A Truth Declaration is simply speaking God’s Word — out loud — over your life, your family, your circumstances, and your future.
It is declaring what God says is true, even when your feelings or your situation say otherwise.

When you declare Scripture, you are not...

How D Personality Women Can Build Healthier, More Grace-Filled Relationships

Some women are born with a fire in their spirit.
They are goal-driven, confident, decisive, and determined. They see what needs to be done and get it done—often without hesitation.

If this describes you, you likely have a D Personality Style—the Dominant or Driver type on the DISC model. You are a natural leader, a woman of action, and a force for positive change when guided by truth.

But even the strongest leaders need connection. Because we were not created to do life alone.

📖 “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone.” — Genesis 2:18 KJV

Relationships—whether marriage, friendship, or ministry—require intentionality. And for women with a D personality, learning how to balance strength with sensitivity is key to walking in love and truth.

🌿 Jesus as the Perfect Example of the D Style

Jesus displayed all aspects of the DISC model perfectly, but His leadership often reflected...

Freedom from Limiting Beliefs: 

Every woman has a story she tells herself—about who she is, what she can do, and how her life will unfold. For some, that story is rooted in faith and freedom. But for many others, it’s clouded by fear, shame, and self-doubt.

These are limiting beliefs—lies that hold us captive, whispering that we are not enough, not capable, or not worthy of God’s best.
This is what I call Lie-Locked Living—when our hearts are chained to untruths that keep us from walking in the freedom Christ has already given us.

📖 “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” — John 8:32 KJV

Christian Life Coaching helps women step out of those mental prisons and into truth-based transformation. Through guided discovery, accountability, and Scripture-based tools, we learn to renew our minds, reclaim our purpose, and walk in freedom.

The Biblical Example: The Woman at the Well

In John 4, we meet a woman who was trapped by limiting beliefs and the opinions ...

Faith does not belong only in church pews—it belongs in conference rooms, classrooms, and client meetings. The marketplace is one of the greatest mission fields of our time, and God is raising up Christian women to bring His light, truth, and love into every sphere of influence.

📖 “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.” — Matthew 5:14 KJV

As Christians in the marketplace, we are called not just to make a living, but to make a difference.

God’s Calling Extends Beyond the Church

Every believer is a minister of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18). Whether you are a business owner, manager, teacher, nurse, or entrepreneur, your workplace can become a platform for the Gospel—through your character, your work ethic, and your compassion.

📖 “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men.” — Colossians 3:23 KJV

When we work as unto the Lord, our excellence becomes a testimony. The way we treat people, solve problems, and...