Building Better Relationships Through DISC Personality Styles

Healthy communication is the heart of every thriving relationship. Whether you are interacting with your spouse, children, coworkers, church family, or friends, how you speak — and how you are heard — can make or break the connection.

As Christian women seeking to walk in truth and love, learning to communicate according to personality style is a powerful way to build stronger, God-honoring relationships.

That is where the DISC personality model becomes a helpful tool.

🧠 What Is DISC?

The DISC model identifies four primary personality styles:

• D – Dominant: Direct, decisive, and driven

• I – Influential: Inspiring, outgoing, and enthusiastic

• S – Steady: Supportive, calm, and loyal

• C – Conscientious: Careful, analytical, and quality-focused

We are each uniquely wired by God, and understanding DISC helps us speak to others in a way that honors their design.

"A word fitly spoken is like apple...

The Truth About Growth, Clarity, and God-Given Purpose

In today’s fast-paced world, Christian women wear many hats — wife, mother, daughter, professional, leader, caregiver, and friend. With responsibilities stacked high and expectations pulling in every direction, it is easy to feel emotionally exhausted, spiritually burned out, or stuck in a cycle of imposter syndrome.

That is where life coaching comes in.

You may think, “I do not need life coaching — I just need help with business... or relationships... or parenting.” But the truth is: all coaching is life coaching — because life touches everything you do.

💡 What Is Life Coaching?

Life coaching is not therapy or counseling. It is a forward-focused, solution-oriented relationship designed to:

• Clarify your vision

• Identify roadblocks

• Strengthen mindset and faith

• Achieve goals

• Create strategies that align with God’s plan for your life

“Coaching is the fastest way to grow yourself so you can grow o...

A Blog for Christian Women Entrepreneurs, Coaches, Speakers, and Authors

God is raising up a new wave of Christian women who are stepping boldly into business, ministry, and leadership with Kingdom purpose. Whether you are an entrepreneur, a life coach, a speaker, or an author — your calling is not just about profits or platforms. It is about purpose, obedience, and legacy.

You are not just building a business — you are building the Kingdom.

🌿 Business as a Calling, Not Just a Career

As Christian women in business, we do not separate our faith from our work. We are called to reflect Christ in every conversation, contract, and collaboration.

KJV Scripture:
"Whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God." — 1 Corinthians 10:31

Whether you are launching your first book, hosting a coaching workshop, or managing a growing team — you are serving the Lord through your gifts.

💼 The Power of Purpose-Driven Work

You are not in business by accident. God has equipped you with:

• A m...

A Christian Woman’s Guide to Purpose and Alignment

Becoming the best version of yourself is not about striving for perfection, comparing yourself to others, or achieving worldly success. For the Christian woman, it means something far deeper: living in alignment with God’s truth, walking in your God-given purpose, and becoming more like Christ every day.

This is not self-help — this is Spirit-led growth.

🌿 Step One: Know Who You Are in Christ

True personal development begins with identity. You are not defined by your past, your performance, or your position. You are defined by who God says you are.

Scripture:
“But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light.” — 1 Peter 2:9

When you know who you are in Christ, your confidence no longer comes from striving — it flows from standing firm in truth.

✨ Step Two: Understand Your Purpos...

💜 When the Pain Pounds Loud 💜

Some days the world feels too loud.
The lights too bright.
The pressure too heavy.
And for many women, migraines and headaches are more than occasional inconveniences—they are life-altering battles.

June is Migraine & Headache Awareness Month, a time to bring hope, education, and support to the millions who silently suffer. If you are one of them, dear sister, please know this: you are not alone, and you are not forgotten.

📖 “He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.” — Isaiah 40:29

💠 Understanding the Storm

Migraines are not just “bad headaches.”
They can come with nausea, visual disturbances (auras), sensitivity to sound and light, and even speech difficulty. Tension headaches, cluster headaches, and sinus headaches also rob many women of focus, energy, and peace.

Science tells us that migraines can be triggered by:

• Hormonal changes (especially around menstruation or menopause)

• Stress and poor

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As Christian women, our spiritual journey is not static. It grows, shifts, and deepens with every season of life. From youthful beginnings to seasoned wisdom, each decade offers unique opportunities to develop our relationship with God, grow in grace, and stand strong in faith.

Let's walk together through the decades and see how to thrive spiritually in each one — not just surviving, but standing strong.

👧 20s: Foundation and Identity

This is the decade of discovery — career choices, relationships, independence. Spiritually, it is a season of laying foundations.

Focus:

• Solidify your identity in Christ

• Build spiritual habits (prayer, Bible study, fellowship)

• Seek God’s vision for your future

KJV Scripture:
"Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth..." — Ecclesiastes 12:1 (KJV)

Truth to Declare: I am chosen, loved, and called for God’s purpose.

👩 30s: Responsibility and Refinement

Responsibilities increase — family, career, ministry. Faith deep...

Walk in Your God-Given Identity

Words are not just sound — they are spiritual weapons. Every day, Christian women face battles in the mind that can only be won by wielding the sword of the Spirit: the Word of God.

That is why I teach my clients to replace the world’s language of affirmations with something even more powerful — Truth Declarations.

💡 What Are Truth Declarations?

Truth Declarations are Scripture-based statements of faith, spoken aloud, to:

• Replace lies with biblical truth

• Align your thinking with God's will

• Strengthen your spiritual authority

• Activate faith and boldness

This is not positive thinking — it is spiritual warfare rooted in the Word.

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue…” — Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)
“Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth…” — Proverbs 6:2 (KJV)

When you declare truth out loud, you come into agreement with heaven — and break agreement with fear, shame, doubt, and insecurity.

🙋‍♀️ Why Christian W...

Build Deeper Connections with God and Others

Healthy relationships do not happen by accident — they are built through intentional understanding, communication, and compassion. As Christian women striving to live purposefully in every area of life, understanding our unique God-given design can be one of the most transformative steps we take in our personal, spiritual, and professional growth.

That is where personality tools like the DISC Assessment and Connect Assessment come in.

These tools are not about labeling people. They are about raising awareness, improving communication, and helping us bring our best forward — in marriage, parenting, ministry, friendship, and leadership.

“Know thyself to grow thyself.” — John Maxwell

💬 Why Understanding Personality Matters in Relationships

God has designed each of us uniquely — with different wiring, strengths, and communication styles. When we understand ourselves and those around us, we:

• Communicate with clarity and grace

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Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step?

Maybe you have a dream on your heart, but cannot seem to move it forward. Perhaps you are managing many roles — wife, mother, leader, friend — and feel like you are constantly pouring out without refilling your own cup. Or maybe you are simply tired of repeating old patterns and ready to finally walk in the fullness of your God-given purpose.

If any of this sounds familiar, then it may be time to consider Christian life coaching.

✨ What Is Life Coaching — and How Is It Different?

Life coaching is not therapy. It is not consulting. And it is not just a pep talk. Coaching is a Spirit-led partnership that helps you:

• Clarify your purpose

• Identify and overcome barriers

• Set intentional, God-aligned goals

• Create a practical strategy to achieve them

• Stay accountable and encouraged along the way

As your Christian Life Coach, I do not give you all the answers. Instead, I help you uncover what...

In every season of life, God calls His daughters to walk in faith and wisdom. Whether you are building a business, advancing in your career, or managing your family’s finances, the Lord is intimately concerned with every step you take.

The world may offer shortcuts and strategies, but as Christian women, our success is not measured by what we accumulate—it is measured by obedience, stewardship, and faithfulness. Let us explore how to glorify God and thrive in the realms of business, career, and finances.

1. Your Calling Is Sacred—So Is Your Work

Whether you are an entrepreneur, a nurse, a teacher, a stay-at-home mom running a side business, or in transition, your work matters to God. There is no divide between the sacred and the secular when you walk with Jesus.

📖 “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men.” —Colossians 3:23 (KJV)

Your office can be your mission field. Your clients can be your ministry. Your business can be your testimony. Excellenc...