In a world where fleeting emotions and self-interest often define relationships, it can be challenging to discern what constitutes a healthy relationship. For Christians, the Bible offers a unique and timeless perspective on how to build and maintain relationships that honor God and nurture the well-being of everyone involved. Whether it’s a friendship, a marriage, or a relationship with family members, certain signs indicate that a relationship is healthy and rooted in Christian principles.
So, what are the characteristics of a healthy relationship?
The cornerstone of a healthy Christian relationship is unwavering faith in Jesus Christ. In Matthew 7:24-25, Jesus underscores the importance of building our lives on the solid rock of His teachings: "Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the...
Have you heard about Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP? It is a beneficial behavioral science that can facilitate change in women's lives.
It was established in the 1970s, blending methods from computer science, linguistics, and neurology. NLP techniques help women (and men) reach their full potential. Here is what it is and how it works.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming has been described as the science of excellence in humans and involves modeling your language structure and behavior after successful people.
So, this means if you want to be a happy, successful woman, you cannot go wrong by thinking, talking, and behaving the way content, successful people think, talk, and behave. And if you utilize NLP in your language, you will be able to persuade and convince others with tremendous success, as well!
Basic NLP Principles
There are several variants of NLP, so there is a debate between some practitioners that others are not doing it correctly. Even...
We do not start in life with strengths set in stone. We start with an empty slate. Many women have natural abilities, but they still need to improve their blind spots. It just does not take them as long as others.
When you look at your current strengths as a one-time weakness, you can take comfort in knowing your present blind spots will someday be strengths. Of course, this is if you want to turn them into strengths. There may be reasons why you do not want to put in the effort. We only have only 365 days in a year, after all. We have other situations happening in the lives that cause us to put certain things on the back burner.
This is when you take advantage of the strengths-once-were-weaknesses mindset. That is not always as straightforward as we would like.
Are they preventing you from obtaining your goals?
No: If...
I can go with the flow.
I accept that the only one I have control of is me! I cannot control actions, opinions, or thoughts of anyone else. But, I manage my reactions to all that life throws at me.
I release my desire to control situations. I refuse to let frustration cloud my mind. I concentrate on what I can do in any condition.
Although I cannot control everything, I am powerful. I possess tools that help me point my life in the direction of accomplishing goals in spite of life's distractions.
Time management skills help me maintain focus and organization. I set aside time in my schedule for dealing with distractions without losing focus on my priorities.
Affirmations are tools that help guide my life to where I want to go. No matter what life throws at me, I replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
Even during chaotic times, I can use breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, and meditating on God's word to bring back harmony and...
Women tread wearily towards the “right” goals. But what if you let your fixed ideas go and spend time delving into what you really crave from life?
To make an ultimate goal (your dream lifestyle), you must identify and choose your best “significant dream”.
Let’s check out the “What if…” game.
Suppose you have no limits to what you can:
Imagine you are in perfect health.
Now imagine you are an ideal age.
What perfect age ARE you?
Put serious thought into this. At what age were you joyful? What age would you like to be perpetually? What age bracket would you like to do again with what you know now?
Most of us would like to be younger but perhaps retain the wisdom we have gained over a lifetime. But then again, some women instantly picture themselves at ten years of age, winning horse show classes on their dream pony and longing to stay in that moment.
Others want to retreat to...
Perhaps aside from the most successful people in the world, we all sabotage ourselves. Some wait until they get close to success, while others sabotage themselves before taking the first step. The causes are the same regardless of when it occurs.
The world is tough enough without taking on the role of the greatest obstacle you face in life. You are also the toughest opponent to beat.
Hardly anyone addresses this issue in their own life. If you can end this behavior, you will have a huge advantage over everyone you know. There is not much else in your way if you can get out of your way.
Avoid self-sabotage and enjoy more success with these strategies:
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Each moment, each day is an opportunity to make the most of the time I am blessed with by my Heavenly Father. I believe life is a series of opportunities to be the best possible version of myself.
Opportunities to make today meaningful come all the time. I avoid taking them for granted because I do not know when those chances might run out. I commit to using them wisely.
My interactions with others are positive because I choose to use a smile as my introduction. A sincere smile makes the world a more joyful place.
Deciding to embrace a positive outlook is a great way to have a full and rewarding life. My satisfaction with life increases, and I live without regret.
When one moment is gone, I want to be able to look back and define it as a well-spent moment. That means working well with others and avoiding confrontation that troubles the soul.
A peaceful existence comes from having serenity at my core.
I commit to living in kindness and with a...
The Bible has a lot to say about how we should treat one another, offering guidance that reflects the heart of God for His people.
Nothing is more essential than the presence of love in the realm of strong and lasting relationships. Love is a defining and distinguishing characteristic of individuals who identify as Christians.
The command to love is central to the teachings of Jesus. In John 13:34-35, Jesus says, "A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." This love is not just an emotion but an action that is selfless, sacrificial, and reflective of Christ’s love for us.
Often referred to as the Golden Rule, Jesus teaches in Matthew 7:12, "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to...
If you want to be a better life coach, here are some ideas to improve your skills.
Christian Life Coaching is a dynamic and comprehensive approach to coaching that aims to help women improve their personal and professional lives by setting and achieving goals, enhancing communication and relationship skills, and developing the necessary skills and strategies to overcome any obstacles that may stand in their way.
At the core of Christian Life Coaching lies personal growth and development through the Truth Mindset and learning to live like Jesus, which is the driving force behind the transformative journey that clients embark on.
Christian Life Coaching is a powerful and effective approach that can help women achieve their goals, unlock their full potential, and fulfill their divine purpose.
By working collaboratively with a professional life coach, clients can identify their unique talents, passions, and...