Overcome Obstacles: Break Free from Beliefs That Hold You Back

personal development May 20, 2025


A Personal Development Blog for Christian Women

As Christian women, we often carry a deep desire to honor God with our lives — in our families, careers, churches, and communities. Yet many of us quietly wrestle with internal obstacles that hold us back. Not physical walls, but emotional, mental, and spiritual barriers like self-doubt, limiting beliefs, and unhealthy patterns.

These obstacles may not be visible, but they are powerful. They keep us stuck. They silence our voice. They keep us from stepping fully into the purpose God has prepared for us.

“Ye did run well; who did hinder you that ye should not obey the truth?” — Galatians 5:7 (KJV)

Let us explore how to recognize and break free from these strongholds through faith-based personal development, grounded in Scripture and guided by truth.


🔒 Common Obstacles That Christian Women Face

1. Limiting Beliefs
Thoughts like:

  • “I’m not qualified.”

  • “It’s too late for me.”

  • “Someone else can do it better.”

These thoughts sound like humility, but they are often rooted in fear, not truth.

2. Self-Doubt
When you second-guess every decision or delay taking action because you do not feel ready or worthy.

3. Unhealthy Patterns
These can include:

  • Procrastination

  • People-pleasing

  • Negative self-talk

  • Avoiding discomfort or risk

These habits become cycles that keep you repeating the same year — just with a different calendar.


🕊 The Truth That Sets You Free

Jesus said in John 8:32 (KJV), “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”

Freedom does not come from striving harder. It comes from believing better — believing what God says over what fear says.

That is why I teach and coach from a Truth Mindset perspective. A Truth Mindset is the practice of:

  • Identifying the lies or limiting beliefs you have embraced

  • Replacing them with Scripture-based truth

  • Declaring God’s Word aloud to renew your thinking


🔑 3 Steps to Overcome Obstacles and Break Free

Step 1: Identify the Lie
Ask yourself, “What thought or belief is holding me back from obedience or bold action?”

  • Is it fear of failure?

  • Is it believing your voice does not matter?

  • Is it believing your past disqualifies you?

Step 2: Replace It with Truth
Find a KJV Scripture that speaks the opposite of the lie. Here are a few:

  • “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” — Philippians 4:13

  • “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear...” — 2 Timothy 1:7

  • “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it...” — Philippians 1:6

Step 3: Create a Truth Declaration
Example: Lie: “I always mess things up.”
Truth: “I am guided by God and strengthened by His Spirit.”
Declaration: “God leads me and equips me daily. I do not walk in shame — I walk in purpose.”

Speak your declaration daily, especially when doubt rises.


💡 Practical Tips to Support Your Journey

  • Journal Daily – Reflect on progress, setbacks, and victories.

  • Surround Yourself with Truth Speakers – Join a Bible study, coaching group, or mentorship circle.

  • Take Small Steps – Forward motion builds faith and confidence.

  • Celebrate Wins – Acknowledge every step of obedience and courage.

“Growth is the great separator between those who succeed and those who do not.” — John Maxwell


🙏 Final Encouragement

Breaking free is not a one-time event — it is a daily walk of surrender and renewal. You are not meant to stay stuck. You are not meant to shrink back.

You are called, equipped, and empowered by the Spirit of God to overcome.

“For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world...” — 1 John 5:4 (KJV)

God is not waiting for perfection — He is waiting for your “yes.”

Let today be the day you stop letting fear define your decisions. Step into freedom, one truth at a time.

📩 Ready to explore coaching support on your journey? Connect with me here: https://www.lifecoachforladies.com/contact

 

 

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